Conversations As They Happened
(With Corrections To Typo Errors et al)
Actually, not necessarily the ying or yang or whatever it is, will make the woman cook for her man
I have seen my friends' wives never ever dishing out anything for the husband.
And the wife is the boss at home. She wears the trousers and he wears the skirt.
the catch here is that she wears the pants! i doubt she loves him. marriage is often a convenience. people feel that they are getting on in age.
besides, every situation has exceptions haha
have u noticed 9 out of 10 marriages are not the result of mutual love. it is often the case of one loves the other.
but life is often mocked. the perversity of existence. it is as if god is bored and needs some cruel entertainment.
most gals would like to be able to cook for the guys they love. modern day women not cook material is a myth perpetuated to justify any side of the argument suits the contender haha.
and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
ok many marriages are not only one sided ones but of mutually loveless ones.
by the way, love is a madness and only the brave, the unwary or the mad ones who pursue it.
pursue is the wrong word. love cannot be pursued in the sense that u pursue any other goal. when it strikes, there is no way u can extricate yourself becos love is a madness. there is no medicine for it. the trick is to plunge deeply into its deadly allure and let yourself be drowned haha.
becos love cannot be pursued, it cannot be mandated.
u cannot set conditions. that is why they say love is unconditional.
u can pretend but your heart can't flutter. and when your heart flutters you are as good as gone.
but fear not. they say it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved.
becos never to have loved and lost, u are no better than a zombie!
u can talk abt love and not sound like a stuck up idiot.
until the day cupid do u a favour shooting the arrow into your poor heart.
then wam bam! u become human for the first time in your life.
but be careful not to become cynical. and know that though there is no medicine there is hope.
u won't die. time is the great healer and the best teacher
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